LCD12864 Ramps Plus/MELZI display and RAMPS 1.4 pin assignment (no replies)

Hi. I decided to change my 3d printer board (melzi v2.0.1 with Marlin v1.0) to atmega 2560. I will use LCD from old system. Because lcd connected to the melzi board directly, there is no lcd adapter in my hands.

i try to make one for me but get some problems. LCD back and front images are in attachment.
I found EXP2 port pin and some of EXP1 pins from the configuration.h. But i don't have any idea about LCD_D4 ... LCD_D7 pins.

EXP1 Port RAMPS 1.4 AUX4 Port

1. BEEPER -------->D37
2. BTN_ENC ------>D35
3. BTN_EN1 ------ >D31
4. RESET ----------->???D41
5. BTN_EN2 ----->D33
6. LCD_ENABLE ->D17
7. LCD_RS --------->D16
8. LCD_R/W ------->??? D23
9. GND
10. VCC

Could you help me about RESET, LCD_R/W, (and also about LCD_ ENABLE, LCD_RS if they are wrong.)